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Tenoyim Invitation Wording Guide

Tenoyim (also spelled tenaim or tanaaim) is the Jewish engagement ceremony. A vort or l'chaim celebrates the engagement. Browse designs for the chusen's side, kallah's side, or both mechutonim.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is a tenoyim invitation?

A tenoyim invitation announces the formal Jewish engagement ceremony where the conditions of marriage are agreed upon. It typically includes the names of the chosson and kallah, the mechutanim (parents), date, time, and venue. Many families send separate invitations for each side.

What is the difference between a vort and tenoyim?

Tenoyim refers to the formal engagement contract ceremony, while a vort (or l'chaim) is the celebratory party announcing the engagement. Some families combine them into one event; others hold them separately. The invitation wording differs depending on which event you are celebrating.

How far in advance should I send tenoyim invitations?

Tenoyim invitations are typically sent 1-2 weeks before the event. Since the engagement is usually announced shortly before the tenoyim, there is a shorter lead time compared to wedding invitations. Digital invitations via WhatsApp are especially popular for their speed.

Should I send separate invitations for each side?

Many families send separate invitations for the chusen's side and kallah's side, each hosted by their respective parents. Some families choose to send a joint invitation when the event is held together. Simchadig offers designs for both options.

What to Include on Your Tenoyim Invitation

  • Names of the hosts or honorees
  • Hebrew and English date
  • Time and location
  • Type of event or celebration
  • Specify side or occasion (chusen's side, kallah's side, both sides)

Common Spellings

This event is also commonly spelled: tenoyim, tenaim, tanaaim, tna'im, tnoim, tenoyem. In Hebrew: תנאים، שמחת התנאים، וורט.

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